Man. Iâ€™ve been back in NYC for nearly 24 hours, and I am still exhausted from our five-day jaunt to DC. Way back when Obama won the Iowa primary, the hubby turned to me and said, â€œWe are going when he is inaugurated. We have to be there!â€ so there was no question that we would brave the wilds of I-95 and the madness of a tourist-overrun downtown WDC to be a part of history.
We drove down on Friday night and stayed at my sister-in-lawâ€™s house near Baltimore, which kept us out of the fray (shouts to Van; you rock!). To keep drama to a minimum, we skipped the big parties and ventured into my old stomping grounds in DC just a few times for parties thrown by friends and to volunteer at RFK stadium on Martin Luther King Jr. Day to make care packages for the troopsâ€”we got there right after Michelle Obama left, boooo.
Then it was time for the big day. Because my BFF works for DC govâ€™ment, I had a major hookup that gave us front row VIP seats at the parade without having to stand outside (Erica and Boss; youâ€™re the best!), so we camped out in the Wilson Building on Pennsylvania Avenue overnight to avoid the crazy security lines on Tuesday morning. After about an hour and a half of sleep, we got up at seven a.m. and gathered around the televisions to watch the Obamasâ€™ every move, from early-morning church services to the fumbled oath. Then we beat it to the windows to see the new first family in the flesh!
Anyone who knows me even a little knows that I am a crybaby; hell, read this column regularly, and youâ€™ve already seen that anything related to the new pres turns on the waterworks. So I was surprised that the tears didnâ€™t come during his speech. I nearly cried when I saw Sasha waving madly from the car with her forehead pressed against the window and a huge smile plastered on her face (little brown girls in the White House, eeeekkk!), but I persevered. It wasnâ€™t until I was in the car on the way back to NYC that I broke down, while listening to a Ray Charles sing â€œAmericaâ€ with portions of speeches from MLK and BHO weaved in.
I suppose it had seemed surreal up until that point, but hearing those words juxtaposed with that song made it clear that Barack really and truly was not just my homeboy, but my president, too. That I hadnâ€™t been disappointed this time. That our hard work had actually influenced the future of this country. That my hope and faith hadnâ€™t been in vain. As much as I had always believed Barack would be victorious in this election, before he emerged, I never believed it was possible for a Black man to become president during my lifetime. But for my children, it will never be a big deal that this man is running the show; they will never know an America where the disenfranchised vowed to never vote again after the debacles of 2000 and 2004, where skepticism kept some Black folk from supporting Barack until he won a major contest, where we collectively held our breath and mumbled a silent prayer of protection when he jumped out of the car during Tuesdayâ€™s parade. And that is a beautiful thing.
Yesterday, while getting her hair done, my four-year-old niece (who has a wonderful father, BTW) told her mommy: â€œI want Obama to be my daddy!â€ I believe that little declaration says it all.
Where were you on that historic day? I wanna know!
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