Sex Drive: When Making Him Wait Sucks

Written By Bobbi
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I’ve been seeing the same dude for about five months.  We’ve been having a really fun time getting to know each other.  Our first few months were filled with early mornings of the two of us staring at each other in the cool dark light, memorizing the way the other’s nose curves and lips curl.  We waited a reasonable amount of time before we began having sex.  And while it seemed like a longish time (because our friends kept asking us when we were gonna do it already) we’ve recently reached a point in our relationship where we realized that we may have rushed into things and need to slow down.  So upon my suggestion we’re not having sex, because we obviously had some things to work out and sex always muddies the waters.  The problem is, he is really sexy and I am really horny.

Obviously, I don’t want to be the one to break down first.  We always hear about women who hold out when their men are not “acting right.”  Who are these women?! I would really like to know why it’s so easy for them.  I was fine with making him wait for it before we engaged in intercourse the first time, but now that we’ve gone there I’m finding it difficult to go back.  And the longer this goes on (three weeks so far) the more I want to sit on it!

The problem is, this time around, I’m determined to hold out until he’s dying to have it.  As for now, he is uncomfortably OK with the situation.  So, I think it’s going to take a while to crack him.

How do I keep my cool until he gets hot? Any suggestions ladies?

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